It's very easy (especially for us as wives :p) to look and say bad things about our husbands. It's easier for us to say everything that we want from them to be changed, than to appreciate all the good things that they have done to us and the best things that we can see in them.. Am I right? :)
Yep, aku juga suka begitu, hehe.. Kadang-kadang aku ngerasa kita sebagai ceweq tuh emang lebih egois ya, wkwkwk.. "Aku ga suka kalo kamu kayak begitu.. Aku maunya kamu begini.. Kamu seharusnya bisa ngerti dong.." dan lain sebagainya.. Sedangkan si suami cuma bilang, "Oke.." dan dia gak menuntut apa-apa dari kita.. lol :p
I feel so grateful for my marriage life and for my great husband that God has sent into my life.. Kadang masih kayak mimpi rasanya kalo aku ini udah menikah, udah jadi isteri, and now I have someone to sleep beside me, haha.. Someone who I will spend the rest of my life with.. :)
Semalem sebelum tidur, as usual kita doa bareng and ngobrol.. Trus aku sempet kasih beberapa pujian ke dia (serius but sambil becanda juga :p) "Honey, I love you.. You are the best husband.. I'm so proud of you.." bla.. bla.. bla.. "And you are the most handsome man in.. this room!" (hahaha.. *iseng mode on*) But after that he said, "Thank you my wife.." and so happy to see his big smile :) :) :)
It's so important to give an appreciation to our beloved ones, and to show him that he is the best and will always be the best man in our hearts (in whatever circumstances). I want to be his number one fan and his biggest cheerleader.. :)
My husband is my HERO.. He is a strong man, but also has a gentle and a servant heart.. Suami yang mau kerja keras, bangun subuh setiap hari.. Trus meskipun dalam keadaan cape, dia tetep mau korbanin waktu and tenaganya to serve his family (a.k.a his wife :p) and to serve others as well.. Dia rela jemputin aku malem-malem ke tempat yang jauh, padahal aku udah bilang kalo aku bisa pulang naik train.. eh, tau-tau dia udah nongol di depan, hehe.. So proud of him :)
My husband is my BEST FRIEND.. Apalagi buat aku yang pindah ke negara baru, I really need a friend that can accompany me.. DM is not only my husband, but he is also my best friend :) Temen buat ketawa bareng, nonton bareng, makan bareng, nge-date, ngobrol, and of course doa bareng, saat teduh bareng and ke gereja bareng.. hehe..
My husband is my SUPPORTER.. He is the one that always says, "Well done!" setiap kali aku berhasil ngerjain sesuatu.. or says "Thank you" every time I cook for him or do something for him.. Dia juga yang dengan sabar ngajarin aku banyak hal selama aku tinggal di negara kangguru ini :p
My husband is my GODLY MAN.. Dia memang bukan tipe pria yang suka on the stage (khotbah / mimpin pujian dsb.) but he is "behind the scene" man :p He loves God and I can see it through his love to me.. He loves me unconditionally.. very easy to forgive and to forget.. Dia juga ga banyak ngomong, but he shows his love through action (I think it speaks louder than words) and I can see Jesus through him :) He is a Godly husband and I believe he will be a Godly father too one day (and a Godly grand father.. LOL!)
I love you, my husband... ^^
"I thank my God every time I remember you..."
- Philippians 1:3